Dear Doctor Love, please, I beg you in God’s name, keep this very confidential. Do not publish my number for any reason. My problem is a very simple one- I’m in love with my husband’s friend! My husband and I have been married for close to two years now. The marriage is blessed with a baby girl whom we both love so much. We have our own little issues but we always find a way to sort things out. In all, the marriage is okay. But problem started for me when a friend of my husband came over to visit. I had never met him before. He had been stationed in Port-Harcourt until work brought him to Lagos. See, I don’t know which part of him I love the most. He is not too tall but very cute looking. Whenever he looks at me with his sexy eyes, I melt inside of me. But I think the part about him that I love the most is that he is very intelligent and respectful. Unlike my husband who shows little regard for women, Jide (that’s his name) respects women and he often shows it in the way he talks to me when he’s around. And he’s also not a flirt like my husband. Whenever my husband talks rudely to me in his presence, he speaks candidly to him and scolds him. He tells him to accord me some respect especially when there’s a third party in the house. He is such a perfect gentleman. The thing is that Jide doesn’t even know I’ve fallen madly in love with. There is no day I don’t look him up on his Instagram page to check out his handsome face, though I don’t leave messages. Wale, what do I do, this feeling is driving me crazy!
Crazy ko, insane ni! Madam, are you okay at all? You had better ‘Calm down’ like that little boy in the video advised. Get a hold of yourself and of your emotions, abeg. Are you listening to yourself at all? You are in love with your husband’s friend and you want my advice! So, what do you expect me to tell you now, that you should cheat on your husband and sleep with the guy? See, the only advice I will give you, and a very candid one at that, is this; find your way to Berger, get on that express that leads to Ibadan and ask people to direct you to a place called MFM Prayer City. When you get there, just submit yourself to any of the workers you meet and tell them you need deliverance fast. If they want to remind you that all religious activities have been suspended because of Covod-19, tell them exactly what you’ve told me, I’m sure they will drag you straight to the deliverance ground. I won’t be surprised if they put a call through to Dr. Olukoya for you, that there’s a woman with them who is under a spell and is bent on destroying her marriage with her own hands! And you call what you’re feeling the love? It is pure madness, nothing more, nothing less! See, you had better purge yourself of that fatal lust growing inside of you before it gets you into a mess you will regret for life.
Dear Wale, I have a boyfriend whom I have dated for two years now. We visit each other once in a while. We haven’t had sex and the highest money he’s ever given to me isN1000. He is rich but he doesn’t take care of me, now he is talking about marriage, what do you think I should do? Please, help me, my name is Angel, and please conceal my number…
My dear Angel, this is a rather tricky situation you are in at the moment. The first thing that’s going through my mind after going through your mail is, is this guy for real? Somebody who hasn’t attempted to show you how special you are to him via material or monetary gifts once in a while despite that he’s rich like you said, what’s the guarantee that he is being sincere? Could this be a ploy for him to get in between your legs? Could this be his own way of getting you to let down your guard? Or could it be that he’s been testing your sincerity all this while, trying to be sure if you want him for his money or if your love is real? It is difficult to tell what’s going on in his mind right now. The only way to find out is for you not to get over-excited right now and jump right into his arms. You must take your time to study him some more. You must watch his every move. Ask him questions. Ask him why he treated you like didn’t mean much to him all this time and now he’s suddenly asking for your hand in marriage? Ask him to tell you what has changed about you or about him. You can call me so we can talk some more. I need to get some more background information about your relationship. But for now, do not get carried away, take your time to study him and every move he makes. If he keeps bringing up the issue of marriage, tell him to give you just a few weeks to think about it.
Hello Uncle Wale, I need your help. I am a seventeen-year-old girl, a year one student in one of the universities. People say I’m pretty and I also think I am. My problem is that I don’t know how to say ‘no’ to guys when they come toasting me. But at the end of the day when they get tired of making love to me, they walk away and another set of guys will come toasting. I don’t know what to do Uncle Wale, please help me. Please, don’t reveal my number, Suzanne, Abuja.
For Christ’s sake, Suzanne, what is wrong with you? You have described yourself as pretty and a first-year student of the university, what then is the reason why you’re doing this to yourself? Girls who go the path you’re walking now, often than not, end up battling with a severe inferiority complex. When a woman has a terribly low esteem of herself, she grows timid and lacks the courage to look a man straight in the eye and tell him, ‘sorry, I’m not interested.’ You’ve got to wake up, snap out of this illusion you’re in and stop these ‘vultures’ you call boyfriends from draining you of all the sweetness and goodness that’s been deposited in you by mother nature. If at the age of seventeen you have lost count of the number of men you’ve been in bed with, what happens by the time you’re through with university? You would’ve emaciated greatly as a result of being ‘oversexed’ if you will permit my grammar! Please, Suzanne, stop doing this to yourself, these guys will only vandalize your body, suck you dry and dump you like a piece of trash. Do not allow yourself become a trash can of semen for irresponsible men. Don’t be cheap, add value to your body and tell yourself that no man that’s not worth his salt will ever get the privilege to date you ever again. Wish you the best.
*Do you have a relationship issue bugging you? Is there something heavy on your mind you’ll like to share with me? Reach me via email: waleklawal14@yahoo.com or simply send SMS to 08037209290.
