HI DOCTOR LOVE, I have a problem I want to discuss with you. My body doesn’t seem to move when my husband touches me, but I love him deeply. I can’t tell him because I know how he’ll feel. I have tried different sex styles all to no avail. I don’t know what to do, please help me Doctor Love (No names and number please)
DEAR, my heart really goes out to you. I can imagine how worried you must be feeling right now. Yours would’ve been easier to deal with if you’d said you do not love your husband. But from the tone of your mail, you sound like you truly still love your man. The only possible area I suspect the problem could be coming from is that of your husband’s knowledge of your body and how it responds to various forms of arousal from your his touch. By this I mean, how exactly does your husband touch you? How well does he understand the various parts of your body, that is, knowing the various sensitive areas of your body that turn you on and the areas that don’t? And what about you, do you communicate your thoughts, your feelings to him? Do you let him know the parts of your body he should be concentrating on? For instance, is it your right nipple that drives you crazy when it is sucked and not the left that your hubby concentrates on? You shouldn’t be shy, you let him know. These are the things he must work on before sealing it all up with the appropriate penetration. I suggest you call me so we can really talk extensively. I’m not sure this is something we can properly address on this page.
Wale, I need your advice. I have a problem. My boyfriend got me pregnant and asked me to abort it. I aborted it and after one year without even a call, I decided to go on with my life. I fell in love with another guy who showers me with love. Last month, my ex-boyfriend came and said I should forget about my new found love. He promised to change but I’m confused.
Hmm….my dear, I don’t know what your problem is o. You say this new guy showers you with love, so what are you looking for again? You want to dump0 him for somebody who dumped you when you needed him the most? Shine your eyes o, baby girl. It could even be that the only wants to prove that you’re still his ‘property’, that anytime he’s ready, he’ll come for you and you’ll gladly throw your arms open to welcome him. You will not be fair to this new guy if you just walk away from him only to run back into the arms of the very guy who left you thoroughly heartbroken before he found you and brought the sunshine back into your life. Think twice, my sister, do not go hurting the one who loves you. Only God knows what the attraction is between the good girls and the bad boys!
Hi Mr. Wale, I broke up with my boyfriend because he wants us to have sex and I do not think it is the right time, but I love him so much. Please, tell me what to do….070328305…
My dear, there is nothing to tell you other than the fact that you have done the right thing. I am sure you deliberately did not mention your age so that I won’t be very firm with you, but the thing is that, once you’re not sure about this thing called sex, don’t dabble into it. If you really love this guy like you say, then you may take the pains to talk to him and try to get him to see things from your perspective. He should be willing to wait for you as long as he’s sure no one is having access to his prized possession behind his back. Let him know the reasons why you want to keep sex out of the picture for now and assure him you’re all his only if he can give you a little more time. He should be able to respect your decision and reach some sort of compromise with you. And if he’s not disposed to any of this, then give him the space he wants for the time being, he might come around later.
