K1’s Wife TITI MASHA Delivers Baby Girl In The US
What He Told City People
K1 the Ultimate and his wife, Titi Masha are in a happy mood right now. Reason? Titi just put to bed in a US hospital. She delivered a baby girl, and congratulatory messages have been pouring in for both K1 and Titi in torrents. This is because they are a popular couple.
K1 the Ultimate & his wife, Titi Masha have been married now for about 3 years. And since they became husband and wife the two have not hidden their love for each other. Both kiss and embrace themselves in public and K1 has been showering Titi with undiluted love.
He not only praise sings her, he likes to extol her virtues publicly.
During the wedding of K1’s daughters not only did he make everyone know that Titi is the one in charge of his house, he publicly showed her love and affection, as he kept kissing her lovingly and generally doting on her.
When her brother got married a few months back, K1 was on bandstand and he praise sang Titi to high heavens letting every one know that Titi is the last bus-stop for him. He said though he has been closely associated before now with a few woman, Titi stands out.
A few months back, when City People Magazine Publisher SEYE KEHINDE spent sometime with K1 at his Ijebu Ode home he explained why Titi is so special to him. He also told City People why he decided to marry Titi at the time he did. Below are excerpts of the Interview.
You always extol the virtues of your wife, Titi all the time. Recently you praise sang her that you understand her and she understands you perfectly. How did you and Titi become so in love with each other?
Two things would be couple should learn to do to one another is to take time to listen very well to one another we talk very seriously to one another. We exchange thoughts and ideas and I let her know what I don’t like.
She also let me know from the very beginning what will make her happy.
That’s a lot to help in the relationship. When we met. The first thing I made her to understand is my kind of person. I did not lie to her that I am a homely person. I let her get to understand that I am on the streets, working. My schedule of work does not restrict me to a particular place. So, I am always on the move.
I could be called upon tomorrow to go to Canada, I would be off to America or Benin Republic. I am also into Politics and Politics takes time. I am a man of many parties. I did not present myself to her in another way, while I am acting in another way. I made her to understand me first.
I have also come to know her schedule. Her schedule is just from home, to her business and then go back home.
That is the way she was trained and raised. I now see that someone like that can fit into my kind of life as well. And all I need to give to her the very best of HONESTY. She has given me Understanding.
And any woman that gives a man like me Understanding and gets to understand a man like me, will have a perfect relationship with men and that is exactly what Titi stands for.
Because you have to ask yourself. Do you want to do this relationship for the real sense of it, for true relationship.
If your answer is Yes, for true relationship, then put it into practice lets see. There are some today who are into relationships because of what they want to benefit and the will be pretending to you.
A woman who wants a stable home must decided that this is what she wants. She must make up her mind that the moment I enter any man’s house I don’t want to leave. I want to stay there, and I would do anything that would make it workable.
When I met Titi, I knew it would work out between us. I give glory to God for all the past relationships that I have hard. And the present one too, I give thanks and glory to God that so I can witness another things like this.
Life is learning. You learn every day of your life about what happens around you and about what you to put into life, you get to learn.
When you first met her what struck you about her? What was the attraction that made you decided to marry her?
He background. She has a good pedigree. Her parents. Her background gives me the confidence. Her father has always been known as a very disciplined man. Both her dad and mum are disciplinarians. They are the no nonsense type. We grew up in the same locality, on Lagos Island. I am truly close to the family. I know the family very well. We have had a close unit relationship since I was young.
What struck me about her really and truly was the fact that she comes from a good home, where discipline has always been the watch word. She is cool. She is cute. When I put world to her and I got her response back I knew and I realized she still has that homely side of her intact. She is of good breeding. She has good home training. She is well brought up in the best tradition. She is very, very disciplined.
At the last wedding of her brother, many were pleasantly surprised, when you began to praise her to high heavens that with Titi you have reached the last bus stop. Why did you choose to show and go public with your affection and love for Titi?
Honestly, I thank those woman I have had relationship with in the past. But I have found my relationship with Titi to be very different from the past relationships I have had. Honestly. If Titi has a friend and I come home one day to tell her I don’t like you talking to SK. I went you to stop talking to SK. She will stop it.
She won’t even ask me why at that point in time.
She may want to say one or two things about you later, maybe that could lead to a change of mind, on my part.
But if I insist she will comply. It ends there. We won’t have cause to discuss it again. That’s another point.
May be when I cool off, I may now tell her or explain to her that the reason why I said this is because of this and that. She will say ok. She gives me understanding in all respects. She does things to make me feel I am with someone that understands the best way to handle situation. I don’t know may be someone somewhere always gives her training in her way of handling our relationship.
So, I show her understanding too. I also don’t disturb her. When shes going for her business I usually don’t disturb her and I can be rest assured. She is going for her business. She moves from her shop in Surulere, to home in Lekki. You can rely on whatever she says. If Titi says I will be home in 15 minutes, she will be truly home in 15 minutes. Unless there is traffic. And she will keep telling you about the traffic. Her life is from home to business and from business back home. She does not keep friends. She does not listen to hear say. Titi hardly tells me she’s going to parties. She hardly tells me I want to go see her friend or friends. She has few friends. She is not loud. I know her few friends. She listens to me. She does what I want. She is respectful. She is caring she is loving.
Titi’s best friend is her mother. Titi’s other best friend is her children. And the other best friend of Titi I know is me. Titi tells me everything and I mean everything up to the minutest detail.
I have never had reasons to doubt her. She is plan. She is open. She has close friends, that she respects and they are very very close.
They are very few. She has only 2 to 3 friends. I know them. I know their names.
The best-friend Titi will talk to 50 times a day is Titi’s mum. The very best friend that will disturbs Titi is her children. She prefers to discuss with her mother and children. The same way she will sit me down and begin to discuss with me.
That will never bring problem between couples.
As it is now it is 7:30am, I know what Titi is doing. If school is in session, she will be preparing her kids for school. After that she goes to do her business. If I call her now, this morning, that Titi, look, I will be home in Lagos for 6pm, Titi will be home for 5 pm waiting for me.
She gives me what I want. She compliments me. She does things the way I want I tell her what I want to do and she is always ready to accept it.
We don’t talk about nonsense. I don’t disrespect her. I respect her. I don’t say stupid things to her. She also does not say stupid things to me too.
Has your marriage to Titi been tested by 3rd parties?
Oh yes! Many people have tried it. They will go to her and say A or B to her about me. They will find ways of passing nastry information about me to her. She will respect fully thank them and tell them she knows that already. End of story. That Titi for you. That is good in a relationship. It makes relationships work better.
It does not mean I am perfect. I am not perfect. I am not a Saint. I am human. I am not untouchable. I have my flaws.
But Titi knows all these and respects me for who I am. The truth of it is that my wife, Titi, does not get herself disturb unnecessarily Titi is not one of those women who go out there to beg for information about her husband. She does not buy information about me.
She has told many people she does not need such information about her man. That is the problem in many relationships. She knows who she is married too. She knows I am popular. She knows I am a musician she knows I am into showbiz. She knows I am a star. She knows I am a socialite. She knows I have so many fans, admirers. She knows music attracts women, name it.
If you are married to a man in showbiz or a man like me who has his hands filled up you must take it easy, you must close your eyes and ears. You must not want to hear everything about such people. Yoruba people say Ke ti ma di, lo ma nje ki inu Oloro Obaje. If you have your ears everywhere, then you will hear nonsense that will make you depressed or disturbed. Titi is not like that.
I find Titi to be very understanding and accommodating. We rarely disagree on issues, hardly, because there is nothing to disagree about. Now, I am in Ijebu, she is in Lagos. If she feels like being with me and she will coming to Ijebu.
She will just say Alhaji I feel like coming to Ijebu and I will say Ok, come to Ijebu. She knows what coming to Ijebu means. Ijebu is peacefully, quiet.
What Ijebu means for Titi is, as I am going there, I am going to rest. No disturbance. I can’t find it good elsewhere as I am having it good with Titi.
She is a good experience, unlike what I have had in the past. I have had past relationship that have been ok. Been I have had past relationships that have been soo disturbing. What is not helpful in a relationship or marriage is when a woman keeps making you feel all you do outside I know, and she goes about digging for information and buying information. If she is the type who buys information, she will but the wrong one and pay for it not knowing its fake. If they have been giving her the good one, one day they will give her the wrong one and she will act wrongly. She will act on wrong information and before she gets to know it, she will damage things for herself. I am talking from experience. Its not theory. With Titi, I don’t experience that. There is no basis for that. There is no avenue for issues in our relationship. There is no reason for it. When men and women don’t disagree, not that we are just tolerating each other, we have truly bonded with each other, there wont be problems. My rule is simple.
When I am going home, everything that I am doing on the streets end on the streets. Even my band men know this. Those who are so close to me who work with one 24/7 know that the moment I am home and I climb up into my world. I am home. I don’t want disturbance. They don’t need to wait again.
Unless we would be going for a show later in the day. If they tell you Alhaji has gone up, they know it’s a no go area for anybody.
